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Friday, May 13, 2022
The Full Motley -- 2Q, 2022
Sunday, April 10, 2022
Signs You're Living Beyond Your Means
15 Alarming Signs That You're Living Beyond Your Means
https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/personalfinance/15-alarming-signs-that-you-re-living-beyond-your-means/ss-AAVR2f1
by Larissa Runkle
Believing that the gambler’s fallacy is not a fallacy
Living above your means is a classic money mistake that is all too easy to fall into. Whether you are spending more than your budget allows, or you are not setting enough aside to pay for the essential bills, it is hard to see exactly where the problem began once you finally notice it.
These harmful money habits tend to sneak up, which is why we have created this list of 15 signs you are living above your means — complete with our best advice for getting back on track and protecting your finances. Worried you might be setting yourself up for some bad financial surprises? Keep reading to find out.
You are only making minimum payments on credit cards
One sure sign you are living above your means is only being able to afford to make minimum payments on your credit cards. Racking up credit card debt is never a good thing, but especially if you are doing it at a rate that makes catching up impossible. Although the occasional big purchase on your credit cards is fine, if you find yourself constantly buying things that take months to pay off, it is probably a good idea to slow down and reel in your budget.
You are using your credit card to pay for vacation
Speaking of using your credit card to pay for impossibly large purchases, using it to cover your vacation costs without paying it off is another sure sign you are living above your means. Because most vacations will cost far above any paycheck, paying for them using a credit card is a dangerous gamble that could cost you dearly in interest payments.
Instead, consider setting aside a small amount of money in a savings account each month. The best savings accounts offer a higher-than-average annual percentage yield, which can help you earn a little extra in interest. By making regular small deposits, you will be able to watch your travel fund grow into something that can easily finance your next dream destination.
Your savings account is not growing
Another sure sign you might be overspending is when your savings starts to stagnate. Making regular deposits into your various savings accounts is important, not only for the peace of mind it brings, but also in the event that you need to tap into your savings to cover an unexpected cost. Instead of constantly shopping for all your latest wishlist items, consider redirecting some of that spending to make sure you’re saving up enough to be financially secure.
You have stopped your retirement contributions
Unfortunately, it is all too common to start neglecting your retirement funds whenever money is tight. But unless you plan on working the rest of your life, planning for retirement should be at the top of your list when it comes to how you allocate your income. One thing that can be helpful for getting back on track is coming up with a budget. Budgeting does not mean depriving yourself of everything, but rather finding a smarter way of spending that still allows for reaching your financial goals.
You are living paycheck to paycheck
Nobody likes living paycheck to paycheck, and yet we have all been there at least once. Barely scraping by on your expenses between paychecks is a sure sign you are living above your means, and that you should consider revising where your money is going and how quickly. Skip the drama of not knowing whether you will be able to pay for your essentials by trying out a simple envelope budgeting method — a classic style of budgeting that ensures your most important expenses get paid for first.
Your money is gone, but you do not know where
Another stressful money situation to be in (and a clear sign of overspending) is when your checking account seems to continuously turn up lower than you expected — as in, the money has been spent but you do not know how. One way to get around this is by using a budgeting app such as Clarity or Truebill. This app will not only help you keep track of where your money goes, but also offer helpful tips for cutting expenses and saving more toward the things that matter.
Your debt balance remains the same
As with your various savings accounts, when your debt balances stay the same for too long, it is a sure sign you are living above your means. Because unpaid debts are likely costing you in accumulated interest, delaying your payments is never a good idea. Rather than avoiding your debts, try to put a cap on how much debt you are accumulating, then make a plan to start paying them back little by little each month. There are different approaches you can take to get out of debt, including the debt avalanche and debt snowball methods.
Making your monthly payments is a struggle
Bills, loans, mortgages — all of these things demand monthly payments, and if you have recently started falling behind, it could be time to rethink how your income is being spent. One solution is the Mvelopes app. Much like the envelope budgeting method mentioned above, this system of saving has you put aside enough money to cover your major expenses immediately after getting paid — that way, you never have to worry about being able to afford your monthly bills again.
You are seriously considering a high-interest loan
High-interest loans like payday loans are a risky financial move for anyone, but especially if you are already struggling to make ends meet. Rather than jumping right in and signing on the first loan you are offered, take a minute to consider your options. Ask yourself why you need to take out a loan in the first place, and if there is an alternative to the funds you need. For instance, choosing one of the best side hustles could be a good option if you have room in your schedule. Revisiting your budget will also likely be important if you find yourself in this position.
You are buying things you cannot afford to pay for upfront
Much like maxing out your credit card balance every month, buying things you cannot afford to pay for is bad news when it comes to the health of your finances. For some, buying things out of budget might be a necessity. If that is the case, try and find a way to regularly set aside some of your income to pay for those things. If it is just a matter of splurging on expensive wishlist items, just remember: there is no way anything you buy will make you as happy as a well-earned sense of financial security.
You justify unnecessary spending
Another story so many of us tell ourselves is that we really need this new phone or that new thing for the house or a nice new dress to be happy — when, in fact, we really do not. Retail therapy (and the addictive spending behavior that comes with it) is a real problem, and it all starts with justifying unnecessary spending. Rather than continuing to come up with reasons to buy things, try and switch your mindset to start a savings habit. For this, it helps to come up with some clear financial goals and have a way to regularly track your progress. When you do so, you can change the question from “why do I need this?” to “would I rather have this or that important thing I am saving up for?”
You are avoiding your bills
Although they might seem like they are hiding in that big pile of mail, the fact is that your bills are not going anywhere, and avoiding them will only make things worse. Instead of pretending they do not exist, come up with a plan to conquer your bills. This might include things like renegotiating the monthly cost of your bills, or even coming up with a simple solution for lowering those bills. Whatever it is, start taking baby steps toward paying them off — we promise, the peace of mind will be worth the expense.
You are receiving collection calls
When things go unpaid, the collection agencies start calling. This is a sure sign not only that you are living above your means, but also that you may need to rethink how to manage your money. The first step here is to figure out what the collection agencies are calling about, and if you can afford to pay it back straight away. If not, you may need to negotiate something called a collection agency payment plan. Either way, do not waste any time ignoring these calls, especially because the damage of unpaid debts could far outweigh the cost of repaying them.
Your credit score has taken a hit
After several months of taking on debt or neglecting to pay your bills on time, you can expect to see your credit score to take a pretty big hit. Again, do not underestimate the power of a good credit score, as this number often determines your buying or borrowing power when it comes to things like big purchases (a home or car), loans, and even new credit cards. Take the time to find out why your credit score has dropped, then take the necessary steps to fix it. This could be as simple as getting a handle on your budget and ensuring you make your monthly payments on time, or as complicated as working with a credit repair company. The right option for you will depend on your financial situation.
You are losing sleep over money
Whether it is the stress of unpaid bills or just living paycheck to paycheck, your financial health will often affect your physical well-being as well. Although we often take the time to address our personal self-care, we easily forget about the importance of financial self-care. Fortunately, you have the power to change that. Take a hard look at your finances so you can pinpoint where the problems are. Then get on a path to fixing them, and make a promise to yourself to practice better financial self-care.
The bottom line
Living beyond your means is an all too common problem, and whenever you find yourself in this situation, it is important to do the work to fix it. Although a few weeks or months might pass without issue, overspending will always catch up in the form of neglected savings accounts and unpaid debts. Do not let yourself become a victim of overspending. Instead, work on setting a budget you can reliably stick to — one that allows for paying your bills, working toward your financial goals, and still splurging every once in a while on the fun stuff.
Thursday, March 10, 2022
BOOK REVIEW: "The Secrets of a Millionaire Mind" (2005)
Thursday, February 10, 2022
The Full Motley -- 1Q, 2022
Saturday, December 18, 2021
Worst Financial Advice
There is an old saying, which is not applicable to finance, "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions." The adage warns that having good intentions will not automatically synch up with the execution or results. Accordingly, there several piece of financial advice that make me laugh because when applied incorrectly or timed poorly, these nuggets of advice are better left unheard.
1. "Buy low; sell high"
Not all advice is equal |
At best, this phrase is a simple answer for “how do you make money in the market?” As advice, it is virtually useless since it gives no meaningful instruction. At worst, the end result is constantly selling your winners to buy perennial losers.
2. "Never invest in something you don't understand"
If you learn by doing (as everyone does), then this advice leaves you nowhere to begin. You cannot understand the market or investments without being in them, which leaves nowhere to start. Even the most successful investors in the world understand how little sense the movement of the stock markets make.
3. "Time is money"
Neither is a renewable nor unlimited resource. There are certainly situations by which “time is money” is a reasonably adequate adage, but it is neither universally true nor good advice. Out of context and in the wrong minds, this phrase creates more confusion than clarity.
4. "Hope is not a strategy"
This can be a snarky response to hearing someone say “Here’s hoping.” Except, hope comes after putting a strategy in place, so this phrase can turn a wannabe soothsayer from a smartass into a dumbass quickly when used abundantly.
5. "If you do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life"
There is a small but important difference between this phrase and "If you love what you do, you'll never work a day in your life." The latter can be great advice for the right people. But the former advice could ensure financial ruin. If you grow up following this advice with poor execution, then it might as well be a cautionary tale, "if you only do what you love, then you'll never work a day in your life," because you are unproductive, selfish &/or immature. As Dave Ramsey (a man who seemingly loves what he does) loves to say, “Adults devise a plan and follow it; children do what feels good.”
Sunday, November 14, 2021
The Full Motley -- 4Q, 2021
Welcome to the final stretch of 2021, and the stock markets have been holding strong! In fact, we could break out pinstripe suits and flapper clothes since it almost feels like the start of a new Roaring '20s. Aside from a drop in late-September into early-October, the markets have continued to rise. The dollar amount moving from my Total Stock Market Index Fund into my Total International Stock Market Index Fund this quarter was less than the amount moved in the third quarter.
Any lessons that the market has taught us lately are nothing unique, and they probably could apply generally to life as well. The first one that came to mind compared market returns to happiness. It's funny how we (society) talk of happiness as a destination when it is really just an emotion, the same as our other emotions. It passes, it returns, and we cycle through them all repeatedly. In the market, we say "buy low; sell high," but there is no instruction for what comes next. Selling with nowhere to go is truly poor advice. It is a lot like whatever road to happiness, and learning that the road keeps going through happiness.
I was listening to talk radio this morning, and the broadcasters discussed bubbles. Heavily implying that the market is in another bubble (or is it that they are still saying it?), they said that bubbles emerge out of reasonable and rational thoughts, but they keep growing beyond the reasons and rationale. Many examples exist from AAA-rated mortgage bonds never defaulting (as described in The Big Short) to ESG investing today. The hosts stated how illogical it was that the value of Tesla, Inc. ($TSLA) has exceeded the energy sector combined, considering ZEVs' reliance upon energy.
Friday, October 1, 2021
Lessons from a Kick-Six
Scoring on an unlikely play will not win the game |
Another result was that the halftime show aired the play no less than five times, questioning the decision repeatedly. Jaguars were gifted a great opportunity, and they capitalized on it fully. Instead of falling behind three points, they took a six-point lead into the locker room.
Then, there was another half of the game to play, and Arizona Cardinals had a stronger second half, winning 31-19. After all the advantages of that improbable touchdown gave them, Jaguars were only able to notch three more points, which was not nearly enough to win the game. The "Kick Six" still made highlight reels throughout the evening and it was shared across Twitter, but it was not a once-and-done solution to winning the game. In reality, any team expecting to win games with a "Kick Six" will not fare well throughout a full season.
Here is the loosely connected analogy to finance. That "Kick Six" touchdown reminded me of getting a big economic win, such as exposure to cryptocurrency, NFT, $GME or the like. Getting the big lead is only one part. Holding onto it is a different game altogether. Buying into Bitcoin 10 years ago has been spectacular, but NFTs may become nothing more than a beanie baby-esque fad and what happens to $GME remains to be seen early next year as those oversized increases then qualify for long-term capital gains.
More important than a single play, economically or athletically, is the strategy for the full game. Sticking to the strategy is quite often the singular skill that separates winners from losers, if not in sports, then at least for professional careers or in finance.
I warn people who are expecting a large inheritance (or hoping a big lottery win) can provide their financial stability that having money in and of itself does not equate to any money management skills.
Herein lies the beauty of slowly building wealth. Your knowledge often expands as your wealth does, even if both are abstract concepts. There is an immeasurable benefit to that unity.